Diwali Gifts for Staff That Aren't Sweets Nobody Eats

Diwali Gifts for Staff That Aren't Sweets Nobody Eats

 

★ ★ The box of sweets solves the giver’s problem, not the receiver’s — five tests that show whichJar candles ₹379 · Everyday Beautiful Mugs ₹474 · reed diffusers from ₹749 · duos from ₹1,498 · free shipping above ₹499A portion funds girl-child education
★ SOSA Reed Diffusers · past the sweets default
Sweets became the default because they are effortless to buy, not because they are wanted — and the replacement has to pass five tests, the hardest of which is the journey home
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
★★★★★
"Eleven boxes came into our house in one week and four of them were still sealed a fortnight later. I stopped assuming the people I give to are having a different experience."
Chitra V. Guntur
Diwali list · Everyday Beautiful Mugs ₹474
★★★★★
"The commute test is the one nobody thinks about. Two buses and a walk. Anything heavy is a punishment, however nice it is."
Mahesh O. Karnal
Six staff · Cozy Corner candles ₹379
★★★★★
"I never once asked what anybody in the house could or could not eat before handing over food. Reading that put plainly was uncomfortable and it was correct."
Bindu A. Silchar
Diwali gifting · Morning Freshness 50ml ₹749
★★★★★
"Six diffusers at ₹749 came to ₹4,494 for the whole list and I made one decision instead of six. That was worth more to me than the money saved."
Salim K. Anand
Six people · Morning Freshness 50ml
★★★★★
"The bit about cash coming first and the object being extra is the part every gifting page skips. Ours goes in an envelope and always has."
Pallavi F. Nellore
Household Diwali · Evening Calm ₹799
★★★★★
"We gave sweets for eleven years because it was easy for us. Mugs this year, and they were being used the following week, which the sweets never were."
Dinesh H. Bilaspur
Diwali list · Everyday Beautiful Mugs ₹474
★★★★★
"Eleven boxes came into our house in one week and four of them were still sealed a fortnight later. I stopped assuming the people I give to are having a different experience."
Chitra V. Guntur
Diwali list · Everyday Beautiful Mugs ₹474
★★★★★
"The commute test is the one nobody thinks about. Two buses and a walk. Anything heavy is a punishment, however nice it is."
Mahesh O. Karnal
Six staff · Cozy Corner candles ₹379
★★★★★
"I never once asked what anybody in the house could or could not eat before handing over food. Reading that put plainly was uncomfortable and it was correct."
Bindu A. Silchar
Diwali gifting · Morning Freshness 50ml ₹749
★★★★★
"Six diffusers at ₹749 came to ₹4,494 for the whole list and I made one decision instead of six. That was worth more to me than the money saved."
Salim K. Anand
Six people · Morning Freshness 50ml
★★★★★
"The bit about cash coming first and the object being extra is the part every gifting page skips. Ours goes in an envelope and always has."
Pallavi F. Nellore
Household Diwali · Evening Calm ₹799
★★★★★
"We gave sweets for eleven years because it was easy for us. Mugs this year, and they were being used the following week, which the sweets never were."
Dinesh H. Bilaspur
Diwali list · Everyday Beautiful Mugs ₹474
✓ Five tests a replacement has to pass · the commute home is the hardest one ✓ Cash first, object second · a gift is never the substitute for either pay or a bonus ✓ Free shipping above ₹499 · a portion of every order funds girl-child education

 

Founder Diaries · Diwali Gifting · Beyond Sweets
By Sonal Sahani · ISIPCA Versailles 9 min read Updated August 2026
The box of sweets did not become the standard Diwali gift for staff because anyone established that it was wanted. It became the standard because it removes every decision from the person buying it — no size, no taste, no measurement, no research, available on every road, obviously a gift the moment it is seen. It solves the giver's problem completely and the receiver's problem not at all. That is worth saying without any sneering attached, because the giver's problem is real: you have eight or ten people to buy for and a fortnight in which to do it. This page is about what else passes that same test of effortlessness, without arriving as the fifth identical box in a week and without becoming something heavy to carry home on a bus.
Quick answers — read this first
Cash comes first, whatever you choose. For anyone who works for you, cash is the convention and it is what most people would prefer. Anything on this page is a courtesy alongside it, never a replacement for it, and never a replacement for pay or a Diwali bonus.

The replacement has to pass five tests: it must not spoil, it must not assume a diet, it must survive the journey home, it must need nothing else bought to work, and it must not be an ornament somebody now has to display.

What passes: a 50ml reed diffuser at ₹749, a jar candle at ₹379, an Everyday Beautiful Mug at ₹474. What fails: wax melts at ₹474, because they need a burner that may not exist in the home they reach.

Buy one thing, buy it as many times as you need. 6 × ₹749 = ₹4,494 for six people. 10 × ₹379 = ₹3,790 for ten. One decision, not ten, which is the same thing the box of sweets was giving you.
The short answer
Short answer: cash in an envelope first. Then, if you want a physical thing alongside it, one item bought repeatedly — an Everyday Beautiful Mug at ₹474, a jar candle at ₹379 or a Morning Freshness 50ml reed diffuser at ₹749. All three are sealed, none of them spoils, none of them assumes anything about anybody's diet, and all three are complete on their own.
How the category works: a reed diffuser is a glass bottle of fragrance oil with six fibre reeds standing in it. The oil climbs the fibre and evaporates off the exposed length — no flame, no socket, nothing to switch on and no maintenance beyond turning the reeds over now and then. 50ml runs 6–8 weeks and 130ml runs 14–18. It has a stated life, which is the quality that makes a consumable a good obligation gift: it finishes, and it leaves nothing behind that anyone has to keep.
Straight answer
What can you give staff for Diwali instead of sweets?
1. Cash, and then the object. For house help, a driver, a cook, a guard or anyone else who works for you, cash is the established convention and it is what most people would choose if asked. Everything else on this page belongs alongside it. A gift never stands in for pay and never stands in for a Diwali bonus, and any page that arranges it the other way round is selling you something at somebody else's expense.

2. Understand what sweets were actually doing for you. They required no decision. That is their whole function and it is a genuine one — a list of eight people and a fortnight is a real constraint. Any replacement has to be equally effortless, which means one item bought eight times, not eight items chosen individually.

3. The five tests. Does it spoil. Does it assume a diet. Does it survive a journey home on a bus, a share auto or a local train. Does it need a second purchase to be usable. Does it have to be displayed. A box of sweets fails the first three; a decorative showpiece fails the last; wax melts at ₹474 fail the fourth because they need a burner.

4. The three things I would actually send. An Everyday Beautiful Mug at ₹474, because it is used on ordinary days and assumes nothing at all. A jar candle at ₹379, roughly 15–18 hours, complete on its own. A 50ml reed diffuser at ₹749, which runs 6–8 weeks and needs nothing done to it.

5. Show yourself the arithmetic before you commit. 6 × ₹749 = ₹4,494. 10 × ₹379 = ₹3,790. 14 × ₹474 = ₹6,636. Per-head figures always feel smaller than they are, and the multiplication is the only honest way to see the total.

6. Buy identically. People who work in the same building compare what they were given, and there is no version of that comparison that ends well when the gifts differ. Identical is not laziness here; it is the fairest available arrangement and it is also the fastest.

7. Do not assume anything about the home it goes to. Not the size of it, not who lives in it, not what is eaten there, not what is observed there. This is the strongest single argument for a sealed, non-edible, non-decorative object: it works without you needing to know any of that.

Everything is composed and handmade in small batches in Pune, and a portion of every order supports girl-child education through Nanhi Kali.
TL;DR: cash first. Then one item bought repeatedly — a ₹474 mug, a ₹379 candle or a ₹749 reed diffuser. Sealed, non-edible, complete on its own, and light enough to carry home on a bus. Skip wax melts: they need a burner.
SOSA Everyday Beautiful ceramic mug, a Diwali gift for staff instead of sweets at ₹474
The replacement that assumes the least
SOSA Everyday Beautiful Mug ₹474
A mug is the least presumptuous object on our store. It does not require a flame, a socket, a shelf, a burner or a household that is interested in fragrance. It does not assume anything about what is eaten in the home it reaches, and it does not have to be displayed — it is used on an ordinary weekday morning and then washed up. It travels flat and boxed, which matters if the journey home is two buses. Six of them is 6 × ₹474 = ₹2,844 and clears the ₹499 free-shipping line in one order. The one honest caution is that it is ceramic: it wants a bag rather than a hand.

Part one — why sweets became the default

It is worth being fair to the box of sweets before dismantling it, because the reasons it won are good reasons and any replacement has to beat them on their own terms. The sweets default is a decision-elimination device. It removes size, taste, colour, fit, research and the risk of looking odd, and it is available within walking distance of wherever you are standing. If you have ten names and a fortnight, that is not laziness — it is a rational response to a genuine constraint. The problem is that every single one of those advantages accrues to the person buying, and none of them to the person receiving.

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THE FIRST FAILURE · DENSITY
Everyone reasons identically, so everyone gives the same thing
Because the logic is sound, it is universal, which means the household receiving your box is receiving several others in the same week from people applying exactly the same reasoning. The gift is not judged on its own merits; it arrives into a stack of near-identical boxes with a short clock running on all of them. That is not a comment on quality. A very good box and an ordinary one have the same problem once they are the fourth. And the household on the receiving end has now acquired a storage task and a consumption deadline in the busiest fortnight of their year, which was not the intention of anybody who gave one.
The test: if you can picture three other people giving the same category this week, you have bought a category, not a gift.
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THE SECOND FAILURE · YOU DO NOT KNOW
Food is the one category that requires knowledge you do not have
SOSA Cozy Corner scented jar candle as a Diwali gift for staffCozy Corner₹379 · jar candleHanding food to somebody is an assertion about what they eat, and it is an assertion you are almost never in a position to make. Health, habit, observance, allergy, what somebody's mother in the same house can and cannot have — none of it is your business and none of it is visible to you. The person receiving it also cannot tell you, because declining food from an employer at Diwali is not a comfortable thing to do. So the box is accepted, thanked for, carried home, and its fate is nobody's business afterwards. A sealed non-edible object removes the entire question. A ₹379 jar candle, a ₹474 mug or a ₹749 diffuser requires you to know nothing about anybody's household in order to be usable in it.
The rule: never give food to someone who is not in a position to refuse it.
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THE THIRD FAILURE · THE JOURNEY
Whatever you give has to get home, and home may be an hour away
This is the test that eliminates more gifts than any other and the one that almost never appears on a gifting page, because the person writing it is imagining a car boot. The realistic journey is a bus, a share auto, a local train, a walk at either end, holding a bag. Anything bulky, anything heavy, anything that needs both hands, and anything that will not survive being set down on the floor of a crowded compartment is a burden rather than a gift. Sealed and small wins. A 50ml bottle weighs very little and fits in a bag; a mug travels boxed and flat; a jar candle is compact and does not leak. All three are also unbothered by heat — ours are tested through 45°C summer and 85% monsoon humidity, so an hour in a hot afternoon does nothing to them.

Part two — the five tests, scored

Here are the five tests applied across the three formats that matter, with the default in the middle column so the comparison is honest rather than rhetorical. No price appears for the sweets column and none will — the case against it is not that it costs too much or too little, and a more expensive box does not pass any of these tests better than a cheaper one.

The five tests
What each format does when the test is applied honestly
The test What it actually asks A box of sweets Jar candle ₹379 50ml reed diffuser ₹749
Spoilage ★ Is there a clock on it from the moment it is handed over Yes, and a short one No — sealed wax, no deadline No — sealed oil, 6–8 weeks once opened, by choice
Dietary assumption Do you have to know what is eaten in that home Yes, and you do not know None at all None at all
The journey home Can it be carried on a bus without difficulty Bulky, and it must stay upright Small, flat, sealed Light, but it is glass — give it in a bag
Second purchase Does anything else have to be bought for it to work No No — nothing but a match No — six reeds are in the box
Display obligation Does the recipient have to keep it out where you can see it No — this is its real strength No, and it finishes in 15–18 hours of use No, and it finishes in 6–8 weeks
What it asks of the home The one condition each format still carries That somebody there eats it, soon That somebody there lights candles A flat surface out of reach of children and pets
The honest caveat: sweets are not wrong for everybody, and I am not going to pretend otherwise to sell a candle. If you have given the same family the same thing for eleven years and it is welcomed, that is a tradition and it has value that no scoring table captures. The case above is against sweets as a default applied to a list of people whose homes you do not know. It is not a case against a considered gift to a household you know well, and it is certainly not an argument that the people receiving them should be grateful for something else instead.
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The three formats that pass all five
The SOSA principle
The default gift is always the one that costs the giver the least thought. Ask instead which one costs the receiver the least trouble.
Storage, a deadline, a dietary question they cannot answer out loud, and an hour on a bus holding it. Those are the four costs a box quietly transfers, and the replacement's whole job is to transfer none of them.

Part three — where the replacement also fails

A page like this can turn smug very quickly, so let me set out where my own recommendations fall down. The first is the wax melt. At ₹474 it looks like an obvious peer of the mug and the candle, and it is not, because it does not work without a burner. Give it to somebody who does not own one and you have handed over a sealed packet and a shopping task, which is precisely the failure mode this whole page exists to avoid. The same logic rules out the 15ml Hotel Collection at ₹299, which is a refill for an ultrasonic machine and is only a gift for somebody you have seen owning one. Anything that requires a second purchase is disqualified here, and it does not matter how attractive it is.

The second failure is the candle in the wrong home. A candle needs somebody who lights candles, a heat-safe surface to stand on and enough supervision that it is not left burning near a curtain or within reach of a small child. In a one-room home where the floor is where the family sits, an open flame is not a neutral object. I would rather you gave a mug there. The same caution applies to a reed diffuser from the other direction: it is a bottle of flammable fragrance oil, so it must be kept away from diyas and lamps, it wants a tray because the oil marks wood and stone, and it needs to sit somewhere a child or a pet cannot reach it. Those are handling facts, not selling points, and in some homes they are enough to make it the wrong choice.

The third failure is the one that matters most and has nothing to do with product. None of this replaces cash, and none of it replaces a bonus. If the money is the thing that is expected — and for people who work in your home it usually is — then an object arriving instead of it is a downgrade dressed as thoughtfulness, and everybody involved will understand exactly what has happened. The order is cash first, in an envelope, given directly and unaccompanied by any speech about it, and then a small physical thing afterwards if you want the gesture to feel like more than a transaction. That second part is a genuine and decent instinct. It is only decent when the first part has already happened.

Sweets are not the problem. Buying without knowing anything, and calling it a tradition, is the problem.
— Sonal Sahani, SOSA

Part four — what I would send, by list length

The list length changes the answer more than the budget does, because past a certain number the cost of deciding overtakes the cost of the gift. The arithmetic is shown in every row so you can see the total rather than the per-head figure, which is always the more comfortable of the two numbers to look at.

The replacement decision
Six list lengths, six answers
How many people What I would send The arithmetic What could still go wrong
Six people who work in the same building ★ One Morning Freshness 50ml each, identical 6 × ₹749 = ₹4,494 They will compare. Identical is what makes that harmless
Ten people, tighter budget Cozy Corner jar candles, all the same scent 10 × ₹379 = ₹3,790 Only works in homes where somebody lights candles
Fourteen people, no information about any home Everyday Beautiful Mugs 14 × ₹474 = ₹6,636 Ceramic — give it boxed, and it wants a bag for the journey
Three people you know well and have gifted for years Evening Calm 50ml — the softest in the range 3 × ₹799 = ₹2,397 Some households simply do not want fragrance. Ask, if you can
One person, and you want to mark it properly Cash, then a Day & Night duo, two 50ml bottles ₹1,498 on top of the cash Do not do this where others will see it and count
A mixed list — some homes known, some not The same item for everyone regardless Whichever of the totals above fits Splitting the list is where fairness problems start
Honest notes for buyers: the least expensive SOSA reed diffuser is ₹749 — nothing below that price is a reed diffuser, in any size. Wax melts at ₹474 need a burner that is not included and may not exist in the home they reach, and the 15ml Hotel Collection at ₹299 is a refill for an ultrasonic machine rather than a standalone gift — I would not send either to a list of homes I had not seen. SOSA sells no gift card, no gift hamper, no gift box and no curated gift set, publishes no bulk pricing, no discount slab, no minimum order quantity and no lead time, and I cannot promise any delivery timing here — for a list of ten or more, ask through the contact page before you commit rather than assuming terms that do not exist. Free shipping starts at ₹499. Fragrance oil is flammable and a candle is an open flame: keep a diffuser bottle well away from diyas and lamps, never leave a burning candle unattended, keep both out of reach of children and pets, and stand a diffuser on a tray because the oil marks wood and stone. A reed diffuser adds fragrance to a room; it does not clean air or remove cooking or smoke smells. Nothing here is a substitute for pay or for a Diwali bonus. Composed and handmade in small batches in Pune, and a portion of every order supports girl-child education through Nanhi Kali.
SOSA Evening Calm reed diffuser 50ml, a Diwali gift for staff instead of sweets at ₹799
The softest thing in the range
SOSA Evening Calm · Kashmir lavender & chamomile ₹799 / 50ml
Where you know the home a little and want to give something with more in it than a mug, this is the composition that argues with the fewest people. Lavender and chamomile sit at the quiet end of our range — on SOSA's own internal strength scale, which is our reference and not an industry standard, it is among the softest we make. A refillable glass bottle with six fibre reeds, 6–8 weeks at 50ml, no flame and no socket. Three of them is 3 × ₹799 = ₹2,397. It wants a flat surface above child height and a tray under it, and it should be kept well away from any lamp or diya.
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A note from Sonal

I grew up in a house that gave sweets to everybody who worked in it, every year, without a moment's reflection, and I do not think anybody involved was doing anything wrong. It was the convention and conventions are how people manage large obligations without exhausting themselves. What changed my mind was a very ordinary conversation in which somebody mentioned, without any complaint attached, that four boxes had arrived in her house that week and none of them had been opened.

That is not a story about ingratitude. It is a story about a category reaching saturation. Everyone applied the same sensible logic at the same time and the result was a stack of identical things with a short clock on all of them. The useful question was never what is a better gift. It was what does this gift ask of the person receiving it — storage, a deadline, a dietary question they cannot say no to, and a journey home holding it.

I sell fragrance, so I am obviously not a neutral party. What I can do is tell you where my own products fail: a candle is wrong in a home with a small child and no clear surface, a wax melt is useless without a burner, and a diffuser is a bottle of flammable oil that needs to sit somewhere sensible. And none of it, ever, comes before the envelope. Made in Pune in small batches, and a part of every order funds a girl's classroom through Nanhi Kali.

Frequently asked questions

What is a good Diwali gift for staff instead of sweets?
Something sealed, non-edible and complete on its own — an Everyday Beautiful Mug at ₹474, a jar candle at ₹379 or a 50ml reed diffuser at ₹749. Buy one of them and buy it as many times as you have names: 6 × ₹749 = ₹4,494, 10 × ₹379 = ₹3,790. And give cash first — the object belongs alongside it, never instead of it.
Is it rude to give the same thing to everyone?
No, and where people work in the same building it is the fairer arrangement. Gifts get compared, and the comparison only causes trouble when the gifts differ. Identical also means you make one decision instead of ten, which is the single advantage the box of sweets had over everything else. The one condition is that the same thing should be chosen rather than defaulted to — pick it because it suits a range of homes, not because you ran out of time.
Are wax melts a good alternative?
Not for this list. Wax melts at ₹474 need a burner to work, and the burner is not included and may not exist in the home the gift reaches. That turns a gift into a shopping task for the recipient, which is exactly what a replacement for sweets is meant to avoid. The same objection rules out the 15ml Hotel Collection at ₹299, which is a refill for a machine.
Does a gift replace the Diwali bonus?
No. It never does and it should never be presented as though it might. Cash is the convention for people who work in your home and it is what most would choose; a physical gift is a courtesy on top of it. If the budget only stretches to one of the two, give the cash. Any page telling you a ₹749 bottle can stand in for an envelope is not being straight with you.
Is a reed diffuser too fussy a gift for someone's home?
It needs less than most people expect — a flat surface, a tray under it because the oil marks wood and stone, somewhere out of reach of children and pets, and distance from any lamp or diya since fragrance oil is flammable. There is no flame, no socket and no switch, and the only maintenance is turning the reeds over now and then. Where a home has no spare surface at adult height, though, a mug at ₹474 is honestly the better gift.
Diwali gifting · 2026
Cash first — then one sealed thing, bought as many times as you have names
SOSA jar candles are ₹379 (roughly 15–18 hours), Everyday Beautiful Mugs ₹474, and reed diffusers ₹749–₹849 for 50ml, which runs 6–8 weeks in a refillable glass bottle with six fibre reeds — no flame, no socket, nothing to operate and nothing else to buy. All of them are sealed, none of them spoils, and none of them requires you to know anything about the home it goes to. Free shipping above ₹499, and a portion of every order supports girl-child education through Nanhi Kali.
Morning Freshness ₹749 → Everyday Beautiful Mugs ₹474
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About this guide: Written by Sonal Sahani, ISIPCA Versailles-trained founder and perfumer at SOSA Home & Body, on alternatives to the default sweets gift for people who work in an Indian household. No price is quoted for any gift category outside the SOSA range, and no claim is made that any category is better received than another. Totals shown are arithmetic on listed SOSA prices, not quotations, and no discount, bulk term or delivery timing is offered or implied anywhere on this page. Nothing on this page is a substitute for pay or for a Diwali bonus. Fragrance adds scent to a room; it does not clean air, remove smells or change how anyone feels.

SOSA range & prices used in this guide (verified from the live store, 27 August 2026): Reed diffusers — alcohol-free, phthalate-free, paraben-free, IFRA-compliant compositions on a heat-stable coconut-derived (CCT) carrier, in a refillable glass bottle with six fibre reeds; 50ml lasts 6–8 weeks, 130ml lasts 14–18 weeks. Morning Freshness 50ml ₹749 · 130ml ₹1,249; Garden Bloom ₹799 · ₹1,299; Evening Calm ₹799 · ₹1,299; Fresh Brew ₹849 · ₹1,349; Mountain Breeze ₹849 · ₹1,349. Duo sets: Day & Night ₹1,498, Fresh & Grounded ₹1,548, Warmth & Bloom ₹1,598 (2 × 50ml); ₹2,498–₹2,598 (2 × 130ml). Oil-only refills 300ml ₹2,399 · 500ml ₹3,499 (vessel and reeds not included). The least expensive SOSA reed diffuser is ₹749 — no reed diffuser exists below that price in any size. Below it: scented jar candles from ₹379 (roughly 15–18 hours), Sandalwood or Smoked Oudh jar candle ₹449, wax melts ₹474 (a burner is needed and is not included), ceramic mugs ₹474, ribbed and face mugs and taper candles ₹569, Amber Rose candle ₹599, ceramic trinket dish ₹664, candle two-pack ₹664 (roughly 30–36 hours). Machines: Boond 300ml ₹899 · Sukoon 500ml ₹1,899 · Megh 6L ₹3,499 (~215 sq ft, a runtime and humidity machine rather than a coverage upgrade) · waterless Vaayu ₹11,999 · Safar car and travel diffuser ₹3,999. The water-based Hotel Collection (15ml ₹299 · 100ml ₹999 · 300ml ₹1,799) is a fragrance for an ultrasonic machine, not a standalone gift. SOSA publishes no bulk or corporate gifting terms — there is no discount slab, no minimum order quantity, no stated GST-invoicing arrangement, no custom branding service and no published lead time — and SOSA sells no gift card, gift hamper, gift box or curated gift set. Larger orders should be discussed with SOSA directly through the contact page before committing. Gift wrapping, gift notes, direct-to-recipient shipping and delivery timing are unconfirmed — check at checkout rather than assuming them; no delivery date is promised anywhere in this guide. Per-head and total costs shown are arithmetic on the listed prices, not quotations. Fragrance adds scent to a room; it does not clean air, remove cooking or smoke smells, or change how anyone feels. Fragrance oil is flammable — keep any diffuser away from diyas, candles and open flame. Composed and handmade in small batches in Pune, India; tested through 45°C summer heat and 85% monsoon humidity. Free shipping above ₹499. A portion of every order supports girl-child education through Nanhi Kali. Prices subject to change — see the live product pages.
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